You're Not a Bad Person

I don't care if you cried yourself to sleep the last 4 nights, or finished a tub of ice cream while watching The Bachelor. I don't care if you drank until you blacked out not remembering a single thing and waking up at 8am hating every little thing about yourself.

We all do dumb things, whether we intend to or not. But that doesn't make us a bad person.

We're human.

You're not a bad person for the ways you tried to kill your sadness. We all just want to feel alive again, and we're going to do whatever it takes to do that.

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